Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Charlotte Eliza Malvern with the following comment:
My mothers maiden name is Malvern and although she was born in Sussex, her father Frank Malvern was born in Malvern and I have a photograph that he passed to me with a Charlotte Malvern and other family members in Malvern. We believe that my grandfather was born out of wedlock. A photo would enable me to locate and visit her grave. Thanks.